Selfish Thoughts

Sometimes I find it impossible to "like" someone's status or photos on facebook because I selfishly think that they have no idea what it is like to lose their child. 

Example:  today, a mom, a nice mom, wrote that she had only cried once today after leaving her child at college.  and all I could think of was how I wished Nolan was just at college. 

And I know that I am being selfish because life goes on.  Their feelings are genuine and true and they deserve to share them with the world. 

But I am wrapped up in my own world of grief.  It's hard for me to step outside of it. 

Ever.