I'm not sure what this person was thinking. Well, actually, I guess I sort of do because it is a place to let it all out (our grief, our pain.).
I have this Facebook group that I joined for people who have either lost someone from Myocarditis or who have suffered it themselves (and survived.) Mostly it is folks like me who have lost someone. More often than not, people do not survive because there are such vague, easily missed symptoms.
A couple weeks ago, I posted a question asking other members how many of their loved ones had actually died in their sleep without warning like Nolan. This post has had an enormous response creating quite the thread. Most were told, like me, that he most likely simply died in his sleep peacefully.
You know the fears I have, right? Fearing that he awoke, scared. Fearing that he suffered, afraid. I have imagined that for these 678 days with such agony.
Yet, everyone says, he was peaceful. He died in his sleep.
This woman commented on my thread today. The spouse of her married adult son was in bed with him when he awoke in the middle of the night. He bolted upright in bed making gurgling sounds before falling over in a slump.
Now I am imagining this for my sweet Nolan.
His bedroom is next to mine. The night he died, I thought I heard a few noises in our hallway or something, but we have pets. So I often hear things. He was found in bed on his stomach.
I won't ever know, but now I have a new horrible image stuck in my head.
I wish this other mother would have thought about that before sharing so much information, but I also understand why she did.
The whole thing sucks, for me and for her.
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